Spinster is a word I was always familiar with, a familiar threat, a familiar feeling of panic induced when I hear it, that I could be next, I could be destined to live alone for the rest of my life, I could become an Old Maid, an Aunt Shrew, a stubborn Feminist Bitch, or a closet Lesbian, since another woman in your life doesn’t resolve the title, and friendship is not seen as an appropriate substitute, for the lifelong partner that you are supposed to be dedicated to, it does not erase the title of Cat Lady, even if you have learned how to embrace your pussy, you cannot say so out of fear that you will be labeled a non-traditional radical, for looking to please yourself over a man’s power,
Bachelor is a word I always admired, that implies the practice of pleasure, cast in the title of television shows, tossing Confirmed in front of the title of single, and worn proudly on his blazer, broadcasting the title of Playboy across his mansion, since an unmarried men are said to have riches, to have dedicated their life to the pursuit of happiness, to have worked hard for what they earned, and now deserve to enjoy it, without having to support a woman, without being tied down by children, without the confines of a nuclear family structure, restricting the bonds of what they are able to accomplish, sucking the money right out of their pockets, demanding his love and attention, when he has more important things to tend to,
Bachelorette is also known as a small apartment, but the male form can take the same meaning, take the credit that was never offered to women, claiming the positive to leave just the negative consequences, while both can also be defined as the state of being unmarried, only the feminine form holds the weight of derogatory connotations.